When you lose someone you love, you will do anything to try to find connection with that person.  Many people pay tribute to that person in their day to day life and some people like to do a big gathering.  Here are some ways to help you find and connect with your crossed over loved ones.  

Seeing and sensing a person's aura can really help you pick up on a person's energy.  Auras can be on objects, too.  This article is focusing on energy around a living being.  For some people, seeing another person's aura is easy and comes naturally, for others, it takes time and patience.  The first steps in being able to see an aura is to practice meditation.  When a person can easily meditate and go into a calm zone, it is easier to see another person's aura when they are not meditating.

There are many different ways a psychic reader can help a client with life issues.  Psychics can offer a calm energy and insight into your toughest life issues.  Here are some common questions our readers have answered.  

1. Relationship Help - Does he love me?  Is he thinking of me?  What is the next stage of our relationship going to be like?  When will he call?

Life is not perfect. No matter how wonderful your relationship, job, children, family, sex life, home situation, friends, etc. - there is often an irritating issue that makes you crazy.

The secret is learning how to deal with these issues and bumps in the road effectively. If you lose control and have a tantrum, you may miss the opportunity to correct the problem. Do not let the negative issue take control of your life. You need to be in control.

A psychic vision usually happens during meditation or a time where there is a quiet space around a person.  It can also happen at any time in day to day life, or while in a dream state, but usually it can happen when a person finds personal space to meditate and focus on a situation.  A psychic vision can be called an experience of light or illumination.  A psychic vision can deal with a relationship event, a sporting event, certain actions throughout the day and/or in an emergency situation.  

According to several sources, aromatherapy is when natural oils are used to help with emotional and/or physical well-being.  These oils can be used by either inhaling the scent or by massage oils.  

Being mindful is very important toward a spiritual life.  It helps us focus attention on personal goals and life focus.  Here are 5 tips to becoming more mindful in day to day life.  It is also a way to bring more positivity in your life as a whole.  

1.  When you wake up in the morning, be thankful for the good things in your life.  For instance, it is wonderful to lay in bed perfectly still and focus on the warmth of the bed.  

While watching Long Island Medium on TLC last week, I heard Teresa Caputo say that intuition and instinct come from spirit.  I believe this as a way for the spirits to guide an individual toward the right direction.  Intuition and instinct help give an individual protection in a number of situations and it is very important to listed to one's own intuition.  Sometimes for an individual it is very tough to figure out if he or she should listen to their gut.

Karma - one simplified explanation of this belief is that we create our own fate.  We are the recipient of the effects of our own actions. I like the phrase, "What comes around, goes around."  It sounds simple, but is in reality quite complex.  

There seems to be a reaction to every action.  As masters of our own fate, we are responsible for how we respond to life's challenges.  That response may determine how happy or unhappy our life was, is or may become.  Free will plays an important role.  

Many of our dedicated psychics practice meditation.  If you have questions about using this beneficial practice, just ask one of them.  Meditation is a useful tool that may be able to help you achieve a calm and peaceful state of mind.  Briefly, in order to meditate you need to break away from the outside world.  Go to a quiet place.  This means no cell phones, television, radio, noisy people, distracting pets, etc.  Be alone and silent.  Give yourself the gift of a few minutes of peace.