Life is not perfect. No matter how wonderful your relationship, job, children, family, sex life, home situation, friends, etc. - there is often an irritating issue that makes you crazy.

The secret is learning how to deal with these issues and bumps in the road effectively. If you lose control and have a tantrum, you may miss the opportunity to correct the problem. Do not let the negative issue take control of your life. You need to be in control.